Tell the truth.
I started a new position and it includes a substantial amount of training related to diversity, inclusion, racism, sexism, and all the isms really.
I want to live and breath the resistance. I need my my feet to match my heart.
I attended an emotionally eviscerating training last week that I’ll be trying to get a handle on for months to come.
But, if I’m going to show up and do this work, I need to tell the truth. Now, to those people who know me, this will not be a revelation.
In my early twenties I fell madly in love with a woman (I don’t think they use those pronouns anymore but I’m not sure)
The relationship was real. My love was real. My courage to be honest about our relationship was not.
I was a coward. I was such a coward.
I was a coward and I really hurt people I loved with that cowardice. I’m not asking for absolution, forgiveness, or understanding.
I’m telling the truth.
If we want to change the world we need to start inside and work our way out. That’s what I’m doing here.
This person, that relationship, that love: it changed my life in so many incredible ways. I needed these words to touch the air.
At the end of the day, it’s just a love story.
Start inside and work your way out. Tell the truth. Admit when you were a coward and try harder to be brave. That’s what this life business is about.